Matt, soon after I met him, took a day trip with friends to Utah to get Kung Pow the movie, and Jamba Juice. This is a picture that I found of him from that trip.
Hehehe, it has been almost a year since I saw the praying mantis for the first time...
4th of July, right before we got engaged.
My mental image of Niel (this and the spider Sue made for me)